Having trouble getting your girlfriend off? It’s complicated, but definitely not impossible! Here’s our perfect tips and tricks on how to make a girl cum.
Are you having trouble getting your girl where she needs to be in the sack? Join the club! Women’s bodies can definitely be a mystery, but it doesn’t have to be a production number just to get her off if you really know what you’re doing. A woman’s orgasm is just as much mental as is it physical, making your job that much more confusing when it comes to bringing your lover to the brink.
You well know by now that the clit is a fickle mistress, as is the vagina, but with a few helpful hints you’ll learn how to make a girl cum in no time flat. We’re looking at a few super simple tips to help you learn how to make a girl cum and keep coming back for more!
Get to know her body
Want to know how to make a girl cum? Start by getting to know her body. For example, do you *really* know where the clit is? Many men still don’t! Have a sexy doctor session and start exploring her body, slowly. Spread her legs and touch her everywhere. What does she react to?
You may even want to watch your lover masturbate to see exactly where she likes touching herself, how wet she keeps her clit, whether she uses insertion or focuses mainly on the clitoris, and if she appreciates extra touching *nipples, breasts, butt-play* or if it just distracts her.
Get to know that clit
The clitoris is the most important part when it comes to making a girl cum. 75% of women who have orgasms do so only when the clit is being stimulated whether you’re having oral, digital, or penetrative sex *keep in mind that 20% simply don’t orgasm at all! If that doesn’t prove the importance of that swollen vaginal button I don’t know what does!* Here are four essential clit-tips for how to make your girl cum.
#1 Don’t pull the clitoral hood up right away unless you want her to have painful sex. It may seem like revealing the clit from its little hiding place would lead to greater pleasure, but it doesn’t – at least not right away. In fact, it really hurts and feels like uncomfortable hell. The clit will let you know when she’s ready to have her hood pulled up. How? She’ll get engorged and reveal herself!
#2 Use lubrication. Whether you’re having penetrative sex or using your hand on her, you’ll want to slather her clit with lube. This feels great, creates less effort for you, and also prevents the clit from potential bruising/painful swelling on the clit from rough, dry rubbing.
#3 The clit should be loved. Always. Always and forever. You see where I’m going with this? Whether you’re going down on her, using a vibrator, or thrusting inside her, your fingers *or vibe* should always be hounding her sweet spot with your touch. This is a sure-fire way to guide her to cum’ville.
#4 Use sexual positions that stimulate the clit. Dry humping, positions like the Coital Alignment Technique *CAT missionary – For this position get as far above her as you can in missionary so that your pelvis is grinding against her clit while you penetrate her* or the cowgirl position *grinding, not bouncing* will definitely do justice to her special spot while you go at it.
Fun and fantastic foreplay
Yeah, oral is great if you really want to get your girl revved up to orgasm, but don’t forget about all those other fantastic foreplay options.
Did you know that 90% of female orgasms issues come from “performance anxiety?” This basically means that girls need to be in the right head-space to have that big-O. Kissing, nipple sucking, butt-play, rubbing your penis against her clit without entering her, kissing and licking her neck, dirty talk – all of these are fantastic ways to get her in the right headspace.
Open communication aka Tell her not to fake it
Women want their men to feel like they’re doing a great job in the sack, but if she feels like she’s taking too long or you’re just not getting her there, she may be inclined to fake it. This is a willing lover’s worst nightmare! Here you are trying to learn how to make a girl cum, and there she is faking it and making the whole process a lot more complicated than it has to be!
Keep the lines of communication open and tell her not to fake it with you. Reassure her that your goal is to send her into orgasmic bliss, no matter the time or effort it takes. This will put her at ease and help you avoid getting crossed signals.
How to make a girl cum with sex toys
Want to ensure your lover is getting the most out of your sex life? If your girlfriend is having a hard time cumming *or she just wants to have a little fun!* try bringing a vibrator into the bedroom. No, you don’t have to buy an 8” Rabbit vibrator to satisfy her sweet spot.
Instead, try grabbing a simple Pocket Rocket vibrator with your strongest batteries, lube it up, and use it on her clit while you enter her. All women are different when it comes to vibrators, but your best bet is always going to be to combine penetrative intercourse with a vibrator on the clit. The two of these sensations combined are basically like magic.
