The way sex is portrayed in the media, it seems as if everyone is jumping into bed with everyone they meet these days. We get it: you want to see if you have potential with a prospective partner so you hop between the sheets to see how the sex is. But whatever happened to waiting? It takes time to learn enough about someone and establish a good sense of chemistry to know whether you’ll be good together - in bed and out - so rushing into sexual intimacy won’t really prove (or disprove) anything about your connection. Furthermore, if there isn’t much chemistry to begin with, having sex with someone too soon won’t suddenly make chemistry appear, making the waiting game seem all the more attractive. This post from Elite Daily highlights some of the benefits of waiting to have sex with a new partner.
For example, the best, most mind-blowing sex can only really occur if you truly know and trust someone enough to open up to them. If you haven't even begun to open up with them on a series of dates in any kind of intellectual way, you're definitely not ready to open up to them sexually. Waiting will not only build anticipation, but it will also ensure that you can trust your partner enough to be your true self with them. For more reasons to wait, continue reading.
Read the full article here: Drunk In Lust: Why Waiting to Have Sex With Someone Is Worth It