If there’s one thing that can ruin a great time in the bedroom, it’s foreplay that is either nonexistent or BAD. Here’s how to foreplay the right way.
Let’s be honest here, most guys could skip foreplay and report having just as much of a pleasurable sexual experience than if they had a half hour of it before actually getting to intercourse. Women on the other hand practically NEED it in order to have a good, satisfying time. Read on for all you need to know on how to foreplay.
Why is foreplay so important?
For men, it’s a much less significant part of ensuring you get off during sex than it is for women. Foreplay is the part of sex that happens before the main event. It puts women in the mood, gets all those important juices flowing, and the key to making sure she orgasms.
Without foreplay, well, it’s like eating a hot dog in a bun without any condiments. It’s somewhat enjoyable, but would be a hundred times better all lubed up with delicious greatness.
Foreplay isn’t all about the physical stuff, either
While many people think foreplay has to do with being physical with your partner, it’s just as much about playing up the mood emotionally, too. Especially for the women. While men tend to associate sex with physical touch, women associate it with touch AND feelings.
How to foreplay the right way
Believe it or not, there is an actual wrong way to go about foreplay. Some people just get it all wrong when it comes to getting their partner going. There are many ways you could be doing something wrong, but instead of trying to figure out what that is, we’re going to tell you how to do it right.
Now, foreplay techniques change depending on who you’re with and what they like. So trying a combination of these is really your best bet. If you want to have the best sex of your life, you’ll need to know how to foreplay, and lucky for you, we have all the best tips.
#1 Start slow and build up. While diving right in may be a man’s preference, a woman is more of a distance runner than a sprinter. Meaning you have to take things slow and steady in order to build up into something great.
Touch her gently, give her soft and slow kisses, then once she starts feeling it, hit her with some harder stuff. You’ll have her ready to go in no time.
#2 Stimulate ALL their senses. Touch isn’t the only sense that we have, right? So why do people only assume that just touching gets things to where they need to be? You have to stimulate ALL of a person’s senses in order to put their nerves on edge.
Light some delicious smelling candles, turn the lights down low, and put on some slow and sensual music. Then, focus on making them feel good by touch.
#3 Use more than just your hands on their body and your mouth on their mouth.Who says that you have to restrict your lip usage to only her upper body? Move your hands and lips to different parts of her body; her feet, her inner thighs, her lower back, the back of her neck.