And they're not holding back.
We all know that men appreciate when you get gussied up for him in something short and lacy, but when we shop for something that looks good for his eyes, we sometimes don't think about how WE feel wearing it.
We don't think about how it affects us emotionally when we wear that item. We don't ask ourselves, "Do I feel confident, sensual, and alluring in this teddy or garter belt?" or, "Am I going to step out of the bathroom and know that I feel ready to make passionate love in this ensemble?"
Probably not. We only worry about how the man will think we look in it, regardless of the fact that the stiff lace on the crotch rubs our chubby-rub raw and the bones of the corset draw blood. The very last thing we feel is "ready to go" in the sack.
Then, what usually ends up happening as soon as we step out the bathroom door? He gives us a once over and then rips the lingerie off in less time than it took to get it on.
We're worried about the outfit and are in our own heads about how he sees us, that we shut off from our senses and can't enjoy the sex. We don't think about putting on lingerie as a ritualthat revs up our horny gears. Instead, we think about it as a way to put our true sexuality aside and start servicing him.
And what, you ask, is the problem with that? Sex is an interesting type of gift to a man — the more you're selfish about it, the more he enjoys getting it.
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He doesn't want you to put on some fancy lingerie while you dread the whole process and then lie there looking at the ceiling as he makes love to you minutes later. He wants you to put on something that makes you feel like a goddess. He wants you to put on something that makes you feel turned on and ready to go. He wants you to put on something that makes you feel fabulous, regardless of how much attention he gives you for wearing it.