No matter her age or shape, every woman deserves to be told and shown how beautiful she is. Use these 11 ways to make her feel desirable all the time!
It is a harsh world that we live in. The media is by far the biggest and baddest critic of women and you will be shocked at the impossible standards that society has set when it comes to the ideal woman.
Women are inundated with wave after wave of flawless beauty every minute of every day. From the cover of their “guilty pleasure” magazine, to billboards, music videos, and every show on television, women today are constantly reminded of their flaws.
It comes as no surprise that many women suffer from insecurities and possess low self-confidence. You may see her as the most divine being ever created, but there is a high chance that she will vehemently disagree with you.
A happy wife equals a happy life!
As the main man in her life, it is your job to reassure her that she is a beautiful temptress, even if it is just to you. You need to remind her that you adore her sex appeal and that no matter what, you will always love the way she looks.
You will be very surprised at the positive payback that you will receive once you start convincing her that she is sexy. Remember that a happy wife equals a happy life, so put some effort into it!
11 ways to make your woman feel sexy and desirable
I know a couple who have been married for the past 15 years and even after four kids, still behave like they’ve just started dating. When I asked them the secret to what seemed like an effortlessly happy marriage, it all came down to making each other feel good.
According to them, “Both partners need to be happy and one way to do this is to boost each other’s self confidence levels.” Coming from a real life everyday couple, that one sentence is perhaps the best piece of advice that you will ever receive. If you make each other feel good, it will shine through and make every aspect of your relationship bigger, bolder and better.
Whether you have been married for 20 years or only 20 minutes into your first date with the woman of your dreams, here are some tips on how to make her feel desirable and sexy.
#1 Compliment her
Women love being showered with compliments. Even if she is the most modest person to walk the earth, she will love the sweet things that you say about her. Be genuine and honest with your compliments and if you can, be specific as well. Instead of saying, “You are beautiful”, say something like, “You are at your most beautiful when you do not even try, like right now.”
#2 Kiss her well
Many couples in long term relationships will tell you that although they are still very much in love, kissing each other has evolved from hot and heavy make out sessions to quick smooches. No matter how long you have been with your lady love, try to keep the flames of passion alive through kisses.
Instead of quick pecks, kiss her like you cannot get enough and make it last for more than 15 seconds. Make love to her with your tongue and mouth and you will be sure to get her weak in the knees and let her see that you find her desirable.
#3 Flirt often
Even though you already have her in your life, there is no reason why you shouldn’t dial back the flirting. Whether it is sending her a quick text saying, “I’ve been sitting here thinking naughty things about you”, or calling her up and starting with, “Hey gorgeous, I loved how you looked when I left you naked in bed this morning”, she will undoubtedly appreciate you telling her that she is a sexy and wanted woman.
#4 Dress well
If you want your woman to feel desirable, you have to make yourself desirable first. Looking sexy and suave for your lady is not that hard to do. When she sees that you made the extra effort to look good for her, she will know that you are trying to impress her. Women absolutely love that in a man.