Have you ever heard the term “cold fish”? This sexual term usually refers to girls who lay still during sex and barely participate.
At LovePanky, we want to make sure this slanderous term never enters your sexual resume! We’re looking at how you can release your inner bad girl and show off some majorly sexy sex tricks in bed tonight!
#1 Foreplay doesn’t start in the bedroom. Sex tricks don’t start in the bedroom. If only it were that easy! Girls tend to think of men as carnal beings on perma-viagra, but this simply isn’t the case *With most men, anyway. We’re sure there’s at least one horny-boy with a perma-boner, but for the rest…* They need mental stimulation, too!
Therefore, let your first sex trick be some foreplay. Tease your man outside the bedroom with sexy texts: “Can’t even say what I’m going to do to you later… It’ll make me blush just typing it.” Opposite the sweet and coy route, feel free to get dirty in your texts: “I can’t wait for you to come all over my face tonight.”
#2 Dirty pictures. Another way you can get him started is by sending a suggestive photo via text. It doesn’t have to be a nudie pic, just so long as it gets him going. For example, send him a picture of some sexy lingerie on your bed and tell him you’re saving it for when you see him.
Jog his mind with thoughts of sex, and we swear he’ll be good and ready for you later!
#3 Confidence. Confidence is sexy, and a woman’s confidence only adds to a man’s perception of how his lady love is between the sheets! That’s right. The more confident you are, the better you’ll seem in the sack. Show your confidence by strutting what you’ve got and not being afraid to try new things.
Don’t act embarrassed of your body, or a particular area of your body, don’t be shy about giving your man a lap-dance, stripping down naughtily, and letting go with some dirty talk. Men love a take-charge woman.
#5 Dirty talk sex tricks. This sex trick is wildly fantastic since it can be applied to any time of day or action. Whether you’re sending a text from work or riding him on the couch, no man has ever said no to a little dirty wordy. It can be awkward or difficult to think of something to say, so know a little can stretch a long way.
In fact, if you play your cards right you can get him off hard with just a couple of dirty phrases and a whole lot of moaning. Some great phrases for dirty talk include:
“I want you in my mouth.”
“Your c*ck/dick feels so good inside me.”
“I want your come all over me.”
“My pussy/c*nt is so wet.”
“You’re going to make me come so hard.”
Remember, it’s not what you say, really, but how you say it. Ooze charisma and, the aforementioned, confidence. If you believe it, so will he.
#6 Hand-job sex tricks. Hand-jobs are a notorious start to any sexual rendezvous. They can also be a bit tricky. We don’t mean it’s hard *no pun intended* to give one. Up and down, up and down, done. Rather, men have been giving themselves, dare we say, the *perfect* hand-job since they were teenagers, making it more difficult for them to enjoy one of the same caliber from you.
Whether they’re a prelude to vaginal or oral sex, or just a little treat on its own, you’re going to want a couple of sex tricks to make sure he isn’t bored. Here are some excellent HJ tricks just for you.
Use lube. Circumcised men have lost that natural sheath of self-lubrication that makes a hand-job a thing of ease. Therefore, if you’re with a guy who’s cut, you’re going to want to keep the lube handy when giving digital pleasure.
Make sure you don’t use too much lube, or it may just numb his pleasure. Also feel free to experiment with heating or cooling lubricants to really get him excited.
Change positions. Hand-jobs don’t require you sit directly in front of your man, jerking him off. Instead, spice it up and play with different positions. Lay on your side, lay directly next to his penis as you tug him off, keeping your mouth close to the head of his penis to tease him.
Another great position is to have your man come and sit on your stomach while you do the deed. This leaves his hands free to wander to your clit or breasts, and leaves you free to let him come all over your face, mouth, or breasts, if it pleases you. You may also assume the 69 position and give him a great view while you jerk him up and down.
Mix up your strokes. Get versatile with your hand-jobs by using both hands, changing up the rhythm and grip, interlocking your fingers as you masturbate him, using a pepper-grinder motion (use plenty of lube for this. Also note that this *doesn’t* work for uncircumcised penises at all!)
#7 Blowjob sex tricks.
Build up anticipation. With your sexiest moves possible, you’re going to want to make him beg for it *figuratively, of course*. Grind against his penis with your bum or vagina, run your hand across the bulge on his pants, and only lick the shaft of the penis, never taking in or stroking the head to give him the ultimate tease before popping that gorgeous thing in your warm mouth.
Use your hand AND your mouth. Life isn’t a porno, people. While it may *look* good to a camera to have a woman use nothing but her mouth on a man, it certainly isn’t going to be the most pleasurable route you can take. Use your hand in tandem with your mouth on your man for a fantastic orgasm he’s going to love.
Play with his balls. Many men enjoy having their balls played with, and giving his testicles a long lick or gentle cupping while you’re performing with your other hand and mouth will give him an extra sexy sensation.
