Do you go with the simple classic look? What colors are men more attracted to? Should you throw in some accessories?
These are just a few of the many questions we ask ourselves as we aimlessly browse the lingerie section in our favorite stores. It can be downright nerve racking when you are buying lingerie for the first time to wear for your partner.
No need to worry though, this article will point you in the right direction and give you tips on what to buy.
#1 Classic lingerie
Classic lingerie can be described as anything satin or silk and not too revealing. Solid white, black, or red tend to be the “safe” colors for classic lingerie.
Think of satin camisoles and matching robes, long satin nightgowns, and bra and panty sets. If you are looking to set an ambiance of romance with candles and soft music then this would be the lingerie to match it.
Classic lingerie makes a woman feel sexy and seductive without the fear of feeling or looking slutty. It also has an undertone of naughty and nice.
By that I mean men tend to get turned on by classic lingerie because you look nice but deep down he is hoping you have a naughty side as well.
#2 Stripper lingerie
If you are in your bedroom and plan to do just a dance with the lights on then stick to combos of black and red, black and purple, or black and pink.
Thongs and pasties are best for this type of ambiance because you don’t have any other props to use. If you are doing a chair dance or a lap dance then consider wearing booty shorts; they will make the booty look more amazing and leave a bit more to the imagination.
If the lights low or off and you just have candles then pick an outfit that is bright neon. The freaky folks with stripper poles in their homes should buy a black light; that combined with the neon will look HOT!
#3 BDSM lingerie
Simple explanation here: black leather. BDSM lingerie focuses on leather, spikes, and masks so this is what you need to look for if you want to recreate a scene from 50 Shades of Grey.