What are the ingredients for passionate lovemaking? Is it about orgasms, toys, or crazy sex positions? Here are the sexy secrets you need to know.
While all of these combined may add a little spice to a couple’s sex life, there’s nothing like passionate lovemaking to make sex amazing. When there’s passion in your lovemaking, you enjoy the act because you’re doing it with your special someone, and not for the anticipated climax.
Sexy secrets of passionate lovemaking
There are a lot of reasons why couples should strive to make passionate love every time they become intimate. First, passionate lovemaking is way better than ordinary sex, and more importantly, it deepens the bond that you have and improves your relationship. Here are some secrets that will help you.
#1 Do some preparations. Clear your schedule and take on some light activities for the day to make yourself more relaxed and “in the zone” later on. Passionate lovemaking happens when both people are relaxed, full of energy, and free from any kinds of distractions during the act.
#2 Set up a comfortable love nest. Whip out those high quality sheets that you’re saving up, set the A/C to a comfortable breeze, or maybe put up some mood lighting and music. The ambience will help you get into the mood easily and give you a comfortable sleep once it is over.
#3 Build up foreplay long before you take you clothes off. Passionate lovemaking takes a wild turn when you reach a point where you just can’t get enough of your special someone, and so all you want to do is carry them to bed and rip their clothes off.
Once this happens, the passion naturally comes in without having to force you to get to that mood. To do this, try starting a foreplay ritual that doesn’t involve direct touch in order to build up your desire for each other once you’re ready for the action. Here are some ideas:
*Naughty hints – Leave a seductive note, text message, or a surprise phone call with your bedroom voice. Drop those hints without being explicit to give your partner equally naughty ideas.
*Strut your stuff – If he or she is around, wear something that flatters your best physical assets or caters to your partner’s fetishes. Walk near your partner, show your goodies, and swat their hands teasingly if they decide to get frisky.
*Build tension – Let them touch, smell, and caress a bit, but only to whet up their appetite more for some evening fun.
#4 Be confident. Right at this moment of heightened passion, you are the sexiest creature on earth in your partner’s eyes. So you’d better live up to that expectation. Break off your usual character and be the sexiest you can be, and be a treat for each other.
#5 Take it slow and savor the moment. And by slow, we mean really slow. Don’t start with the rough kisses while hastily taking your clothes off just like in the movies – even if your libido has reached the breaking point.